i have so many private thoughts, it scares me a little.
"All things are lawful for me, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful to me, but I will not be mastered by anything." 1 Cor. 6:12

"But I say to the unmarried and to wodows that it is good for them if they remain even as I. But if they do not have self control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn." 1 Cor 7:8-9

"If therefore you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your offering there before the altar, and go your way; first be reconciled to your brother, then come and present your offering." Matthew 5:22-24